| For the kids and coaches, here are some strategies a team can utilize to bond and build trust:
1. Use a “thumb ball” as an icebreaker activity
A thumb ball is a squishy soccer ball with various topics written on each individual octagon. Examples include “favorite type of cookie,” “music I like,” “favorite vacation spot.” The players on the team can toss the ball to each other, state their name, and answer whatever topic their thumb happens to land on. It’s a great way to have fun and learn about each other.
2. Give each player a nickname
Nicknames are fun. They make each player feel special. They can build confidence, increase social cohesion, and show the player themselves that they’re worthy and special enough to warrant their own unique nickname. A quick caution here, though, be sure the nickname is agreeable and elicits positive feelings without shame or embarrassment.
3. Use customized eye black and/or team logo stickers to build one’s identity as a part of the team
When a player takes on the identity of “I am a Spartan,” or “I am a Tiger,” etc. they start to formulate their own identities with the larger team. This is key in developing a team-first mentality and for fostering engagement and commitment.
4. Choose a team chant, celebration, or song that elicits collective buy-in
Baseball teams do a great job at this where after a player hits a home run and returns to the dugout, their teammates greet them with a unique handshake, high-five or other celebration to show their appreciation, admiration, and respect.
5. Host team events outside of practice time
Whether it’s going bowling, or to the driving range, laser tag, or dinners and drinks after the game, team meals and social events are a great way to develop deeper connections, friendships, and trust. This is a great way for parents to bond and connect as well, as parents who are friends show their kids that it’s safe and encouraged for them to make friends as well. |
